Eat Healthy By Keeping it Simple

I am proud of myself; I performed a “deep clean” of my refrigerator this past weekend. You know, cleaned out the veggie crisper of those forgotten Persian cucumbers with yucky surprises growing on them. All the sticky raspberry jam residue that glues the jar to the refrigerator door and the stray flax seeds that accumulated in the crevices are banished! My refrigerator looks brand new and I feel “cleansed” as well.

That got me thinking about my healthy eating habits lately. My nutritional eating has been slipping since the holidays. Why does winter feel like the perfect time to cheat, by eating less salads and more pizza and bagels. I can see the results in my belly area. Take this past weekend for example.

Friday night dinner with my honey at The Spare Rib. The servers’ tee shirts proclaim “Life is too short not to eat ribs” and I took their advice. Along with the ribs, I ate corn bread and barbecued potatoes. I did eat salad and steamed broccoli to make myself feel less guilty. Saturday night was at a Mexican restaurant with some friends for dinner and karaoke. Of course, chips and salsa (tomatoes have lycopene), shrimp tacos and lots of fruity sangria (sugar, a no no). Sunday was not much better. Although I walked Linus for an hour and swam laps for forty minutes at the Y pool, I ate pizza with sausage and broccoli rabe and wings with sautéed onions for a late lunch (do the two veggies cancel out the pizza?)

You get where I am going with this. I have been bad. And telling myself that I am eating most of the time between 11:00 am and 7:00 pm is not an excuse (my intermittent fasting hours). I know better! I am eating too many unhealthy foods. Which brings me to my decision to “deep clean” my nutrition as I recently deep cleaned my refrigerator.

When Meryl Streep was asked to share her most important message for women, she kept it very simple. Stop worrying about your weight! Peg Doyle, a certified holistic health and nutrition coach for women over fifty agrees. She noted, “if we harnessed all the mental and emotional energy women have used fretting about weight, we could literally change the world”!

Peg Doyle offered her tips to healthy eating, which are not time consuming and do not require weighing oneself, as follows:

1. First thing in the morning, have a glass of water before anything else. ( I squeeze lemon in mine).

2. Eat breakfast every day (at home).

3. Keep your cabinets stocked with whole grains, nuts, beans, oils and vinegars, herbs and spices. (More about herbs and spices later……)

4. Keep fresh fruit on the counter and onions and garlic.

5. Keep fresh vegetables in the refrigerator; buy a few times a week if possible.

6. Your evening meal should take no more than fifteen minutes to prepare.

7. If you follow a recipe, it must be uncomplicated and allow substitutions of things in your cabinet. ( I keep saving complicated recipes from Pinterest that I will never make).

8. Don’t have second helpings.

9. Eat slowly, chewing each bite thoroughly.

10. Keep a water pitcher on the counter to remind yourself to drink.

11. Don’t drink soda. An occasional glass of wine or beer is okay.

12. Ice cream should be a small serving topped with walnuts. (How small are we talking? This one is hard for me.)

13. Change food with the seasons; soups and stews in fall and winter, salads and more fruit and fish in spring and summer.

14. Make dinner your last food of the day.

15. At a buffet, scan the whole table before making your choices.

16. If you don’t like cooking at night, eat your main meal at mid-day and have a breakfast-like meal in the early evening. It will keep the hormones that regulate appetite and sleep in better balance.

What remains as the single best way to nourish yourself and maintain a healthy lifestyle is a diet of simple foods. Your plate should consist of 1/4 protein (lean meat, fish, tofu, beans, lentils), 1/4 whole grains (brown rice, quinoa, barley, farro), and the remaining 1/2 of vegetables (mix of sweet like carrots, sweet potatoes, beets with bitter like greens). Of course, she advocates no white flour foods, refined sugars, and limited alcohol. Bye bye pizza and bagels! Ms. Doyle reminds us that what we put in our bodies becomes a part of us in our tissues, organs, systems and senses.

Her advice is sound and seemingly easy to follow. The research on using herbs and spices, however, surprised me and has me interested in experimenting more with them in my cooking. Turmeric, the spice that gives Indian curry its distinctive golden hue, with one of its phytonutrients, curcumin, has been studied because of its anti-inflammatory agents and anti-oxidants. Research is under way examining curcumin’s effects on preventing and treating cancer and as therapy for psoriasis and Alzheimer’s disease.

Most interesting, in a recent small study, Japanese researchers have people with Alzheimer’s who displayed classic symptoms like irritability, anxiety, and agitation, taking 100 mg. of curcumin in capsule form. After three months, their symptoms improved significantly.

In addition, offering virgin Bloody Mary’s spiked with turmeric, pepper and olive oil, a pain relieving cocktail to those suffering from knee pain from osteoarthritis, proved as effective as ibuprofen.

Other herbs and spices also contain a treasure trove of compounds that fight infection and chronic diseases. Try basil, cilantro (coriander), dill, ginger, mint, oregano, parsley sage, rosemary and thyme. (sounds like a Simon and Garfunkel tune) These are popular in Mediterranean and Asian dishes. Cinnamon reduces inflammation, can combat insulin resistance, and target and eradicate cancer cells. After reading about the benefits of herbs and spices, I plan to use more of them in my cooking.

While researching this topic, I found a “bright idea for weight loss in twenty minutes a day” which incorporates something I do every morning—take Linus for a walk. One unlikely weapon against weight gain is morning sun. In a recent study, people who got the most of their daily exposure to even moderately bright light in the morning, had significantly lower BMIs (body mass index or weight to height ratio) than those who got sun exposure later in the day. To take advantage, you need twenty to thirty minutes of morning light every day between 8:00 am and noon. Use your sunscreen and it will not change the outcome; researchers believe that the sunlight’s effects go directly from the eyes to the brain. I love this!!!!

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step” Lao Tzu Remember persistence pays off when it comes to health. Starting with a single step today, e.g. a short walk, an extra glass of water, or fruit for dessert can bring you closer to the healthy, fit body you’ve always wanted. XO Penny Please share your views on this subject in the comments section. I love your feedback!

Resources

Younger in Eight Weeks by the authors of Prevention with Vonda Wright, M.D.

Eighteen Ridiculously Simple Ways to Eat Healthy and Avoid Dieting After 60 by Peg Doyle Sixtyandme.com

Food Becomes You: Simple Steps for Lifelong Wellness, by Peg Doyle

Wellnessandyou.com (Peg Doyle’s nutrition blog)

Twenty Years by Bob Greene

Clean Beauty

I just stepped out of the shower and I was scared…. all the toxic ingredients in my shampoo, conditioner and body wash. I probably am housing the dirty dozen right now in my bathroom. Were the parabens, phthalates (fragrance) and sodium lauryl sulfate which make my body wash and shampoo frothy and sweet smelling going to eventually do me in?

Let me backtrack…. My niece Emily, who had a beautiful baby girl Elodie four months ago, asked me to research eye creams for her. She is worried about her “crows feet”, and because she is breastfeeding is concerned about the ingredients in the product. Which led me to the concept of clean beauty.

I am familiar with the term clean eating and do try to eat whole, unprocessed foods. Clean beauty is different in that it is more focused on third party testing to ensure the safety of the ingredients along with an interest in being eco-friendly and sustainable. I was a clean beauty novice and needed to do some research.

What is the definition of clean beauty? It depends on who you ask because it is not regulated by the FDA. For a product to be clean, it must be formulated with ingredients that are ethically sourced, non-toxic to your health and the environment, and without any of the ingredients that comprise “the dirty dozen” (See list below). These are clean beauty’s banned ingredients. You can also look for products stamped with clean beauty seals (EWG Certified or Ecocert). Clean beauty products can include safe synthetic ingredients, e.g. lab made, that do not pose health problems.

Natural beauty, by contrast, describes the purity of the ingredients. They are comprised of plants, botanical extracts, butters and minerals; they do not include any synthetic or lab-made materials. Counterintuitively, natural beauty ingredients are not always clean. Think of poison ivy, a plant that is natural, but not safe or effective for topical use. (mineral oil, lead, petroleum as well)!

Am I behind the times? I think so. Nearly 50% of women are already using clean beauty products according to a Harper’s Bazaar poll of more than 1,000 women across all ages, races and ethnicities, and more than 60% of women would be willing to splurge on one.

Why are clean beauty products so expensive? People who sell them say it is because natural ingredients are much more expensive; sustainable packaging and formulas drive up prices. If you have a product certified by Ecocert or USDA Organics, the lengthy, expensive processes also add to the cost. A study by Allure magazine demonstrated that the mark-up of such products can be as high as 500% of the product cost.

Some brands are lowering the cost of “clean” with these products: Sephora Ultra-Glow Serum at $20.00; Burt’s Bees All Aglow Lip and Cheek Stain at $13.00. Whole Foods is expanding its collection of clean personal care products often priced as low as $10.00.

What advice did I give my niece Emily. I went straight to the expert. My friend Carol works at Sephora on the weekends as the in-house skincare expert. During the week, she is an esthetician at the Red Door Spa in Garden City, NY. My daughter Jamie was interested in switching to clean beauty and accompanied me. Carol suggested Farmacy clean beauty products, specifically Green Clean beauty balm for cleansing and makeup removal and Dew it All eye cream for my niece Emily. Their website boasts Clean Commandments as follows: Paraben Free Formaldehyde Donor Free Phtalate Free Mineral Oil Free Synthetic Fragrance Free Cruelty Free Carol is also a fan of Josie Maran’s products like Argan Oil and Argan Milk and Drunk Elephant products..

My daughter is loving the Green Clean Cleansing balm, much preferring it to the Philosophy Purity cleanser which she had used for years. I am awaiting results from my niece Emily. She was planning to take before and after pics.

What about me? I will finish up my current products and switch over slowly to clean beauty. Remember my “no spending January pledge”!

Please comment and let me know how you feel about clean beauty. Are you currently “clean” or would you consider switching? I welcome your feedback. In addition, if there is a subject you would like me to address, I’m all ears! XO Penny

Resources

Dirty Dozen: Toxic ingredients to avoid in skin care products:

Aluminum (DEA, MEA, TEA); formaldehyde (look for DMDM Hydantoin and Urea); parabens (Methyl, Butyl, Ethyl, Propyl); PEG (Polyethylene glycol); phthalates (fragrance); Propylene Glycol and Butylene Glycol; Siloxanes; Sodium Lauryl Sulfate SLS and SLES; Synthetic Fragrances and Triclosan.

How More Affordable Beauty Products Mean a More Just Society by Jessica Chia

Shape.com, Benefits of Choosing Clean Beauty

Harper’s Bazaar, Ultimate Guide to Clean Beauty by Olivia Fleming and Jenna Rosenstein

Money, Money, Money

“Money has never made man happy, nor will it. There is nothing in it to produce happiness. The more of it one has, the more one wants.” Benjamin Franklin

“Money is not a synonym for happiness, but life is rough and tough without it.” Dr. T.P. Chia

No matter how much you have or don’t have, money is a topic that touches us all. I remember many conversations with my twin sister Jill about this very subject. I admitted that I was at times envious of her lifestyle, of her husband’s money and generosity. Jill’s response was as follows: “I would trade you my money and material possessions for your health any day!” Jill was so right. She suffered with chronic fatigue syndrome for ten years with the debilitating pain and weakness and then succumbed to cancer at age 59. Good health trumps money always! I know that now.

But it is January; time for setting goals (I don’t like the term making resolutions), along with the beginning of a new decade. Couple that with credit card bills coming in after holiday gift giving, December real estate taxes due and help!!!!!!

Moreover, I have a money confession to make. My wallet is very disorganized. Some of my bills are folded, some shoved in carelessly. I remember hearing Oprah say that this shows a person who does not value and appreciate money. Each bill must be lovingly placed in your wallet in the same direction. How else can we remain in a state of “enoughness”, e.g. remembering that there is more than enough to go around. We must treat what we have in the moment with care and respect.

Now, I’m not sure if the cause is the state of my wallet, or the fact that I am a single retiree on a fixed income, and it’s January, but I need to get a job!

You may be thinking–but who is going to hire her at her age? I did some research and there are many part time opportunities for women over 60.

Remember Robert DeNiro in the 2015 movie “The Intern”? He played a 70 year old widower who discovered retirement wasn’t all it was cracked up to be. He seized the opportunity to become a senior intern at an online fashion site. His charm, wisdom and sense of humor made him quite popular. The tagline for the movie was experience never gets old. I love it!

Like the intern, I have wisdom, charm and experience. In fact, we are the amount of our skills and knowledge so begin exploring what you know. The advice I found was to tap into what you do well and your knowledge. Blend your professional skills with what you love.

Think about what you want to gain from the job. Do you want to turn your passion into a day job, work part-time hours or give back to the community.

Check out online job boards–see available jobs and which skills and qualification hiring managers are looking for. Decide your non-negotiables e.g. working hours or commuting distance.

Connect with friends and colleagues. Ask for help, advice, referrals to help guide you in the right direction. My son just advised me that he may have some special projects for me in his insurance brokerage firm. Hooray. He is the best boss–so complimentary and even provides free lunch.

Set yourself up on LinkedIn. It is the ultimate social media tool for professional people of any age to stay connected to the latest employment opportunities.

Read up on your rights. If you are in your fifties, sixties, or beyond, no one can legally turn you away from a job based on your age. If you are treated unfairly, seek help from the Advisory, Conciliation, and Arbitration Service. This is an independent and free government funded service which offers advice in the area of employment law.

Don’t lose your positive attitude. Remind yourself how much you have to offer.

Whether you want to teach creativity, yoga or Spanish classes, or become a dog walker, virtual assistant, or graphic designer or turn your jewelry making or knitting hobby into a business on ebay or Etsy, there are unlimited opportunities for part time work. Uber anyone? Remember you are mature and reliable, which qualities are always in demand and sometimes in short supply today.

Have you heard about the gig economy where there are numerous opportunities for us over sixty. I have to admit this was a new term for me. I always thought of the term “gig” in the context of musicians as an engagement at a bar or restaurant for a group of musicians or a singer. The gig economy now refers to part-time or freelance work and applies more specifically to platforms on the internet that facilitate linking part-time workers with people wanting work done. These are opportunities this economy opens up for entrepreneurs wanting to work flexibly in their retirement. The pros are flexible hours; age is not a factor; you can choose the jobs you want to take and ignore those you are not interested in; the platform does the marketing for you; you can work anonymously with clients from around the globe.

It is estimated that by 2027 in the U.S. alone, 60% of workers will be independent professionals. Joining the gig economy offers the opportunity to set up a small business and work flexible hours without anyone asking your age. I recently purchased an online proofreading course which will help me set up my own proofreading business once I have mastered the class. I am excited.

My new year, new decade affirmations about money:

I am growing, protecting and nurturing my financial life with diligence, wisdom and care.

I am spending money within safe bounds and joyful intention. (I promised myself not to purchase anything in the month of January. I will let you know how that goes!)

Happy New Year my friends. Please let me know how you feel about working in retirement.

Resources

The Pros and Cons of Working in the Burgeoning Gig Economy After you Hit 60 by Hilary Henderson Sixtyandme.com

Flexible Jobs for Women Over 60/Amazing Jobs for Seniors Sixtyandme.com